I had a great discussion with a friend last night...we were both raised in the model of "courting with the intent to marry/be sure to save yourself for marriage" way of finding someone. My thought today is...what do you do when the model didn't work? What do you do when it doesn't seem to be any better the second time?
How do you find a new model to follow? How do you figure out the rules, know what everyone elses' rules are?
This is where I am at. I have no model as I move forward....so I am going to have to figure one out as I go.
But it will be my own rules...that make sense to me.
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